One of my favorite books that I read in my early years of marriage, was called:
"Disciplines of the Beautiful Woman" (by Anne Ortlund)
I found a link for it at: http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0849929830/103-9105480-4218262?v=glance&n=283155
This book was easy to read, inspirational and most of all, motivational!!! The website for the ministry of Ray and Anne Ortlund is:
http://ortlund.org/
~Annie